| Location | Clacton-on-sea, |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 17/08/2007 |
| Date of Death | 16/08/2007 |
| Visitors | 2,445 since 20/10/2007 |
| Creator |
elikem theomurphy kaiser
I didn't have a bad pregnancy with you , apart from having heartburn all day and all night since i was 9 weeks pregnant . At my 20 week scan with you they told me that the placenta was quite low but nothing serious , and too come back and have one done at 35 weeks, i sweeled up so badly though that i could hardly walk , they said because of my age thats why i was big and swelled up (well im only 35) i didn't think it was that old. At my 35 week scan it was confirmed that the placenter had moved enough so i could give birth to you normaly.
On the 15th AUGUST me, daddy, gran and grandad, went to the theater for the night which we had never been too before,the music came on and you were kicking me like mad,i thought you loved it but looking back now i think you were trying to tell me something was wrong, but at the time i just thought it was the music that was getting you so exited as you loved music but i know you more into R&B.
The next day i went to collage as normal and daddy went to work i didn't feel you kick all day , but i didn't relise that you didn't it wasn't until daddy came home from work and he said (how is baby) , i had to think if i had felt you , i could't remember , so i rang the hospital and they said to come in, when we got there the midwife didn't know if she picked up my pulse or the pulse from my placenter so she sent for an ambulance to take us to the main hospital , when we got there we had a scan done and they comfirmed that you were an angel, that moment of them telling us was heart wrenching i thought i would be sick with emotion, i wanted to die with you .
Daddy and me stayed in hospital over night , the next day i had a c- section and you were born at 2.56pm , oh you so beautiful and just looked like you were sleeping. We decided to have a post mortem done on the placenter so you stayed at the chapel in the hospital for two weeks thats how long it took for the results to come back. So i came and saw you every day and changed you so you got the chance to wear some of the clothes i bought you. When the results came back me and they coul find nothing wrong me and daddy decided not to put you or us through a post mortem on you we did'nt want you touched. The hospital then sent you to the funeral parlour just round the corner from where we lived which was good for mummy cause i came and saw you every day and you stayed in your own moses basket i brought you.
I didn't want you to go into that coffin until you had to and then i had to do that to. I dont rearly remember alot about your funeral only bits and pieces and what family and friends have told me.
The priest we had was so lovely he came to the hospital when we found out you were an angel and he came after you werre born to baptise you.
We had 20 blue ballons that we let off at the cemetry and me and daddy got you a little posy to put on your grave .
What a privalidge it has been for you to chose me and daddy to be your parents and im so thankful that we had 3 weeks together before the funeral because that time was so precious , i got to hold you and smother you in kisses and changed you and rocked you as any other mother would , it gets harder to live without you not eaiser , but i would do it again because your so speacial my little boy you are with us wherever we are or whatever i we do .
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY ELIKEM
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY
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Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday Elikem
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.
We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ELIKEM
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love you take care big hugs to you
and your family that miss you ever
day more then words can say take
care bye for now love from me
Sylvie mommy of Samantha Belanger
Happy Birthday
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BIG HUGS ELIKEM
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⋱♰⋰ Angel Day ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Your Angel Day in Heaven ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Many tears will fall for you ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ You touched so many loving hearts ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ There’s so many missing you ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ As you now live in paradise ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Its Heaven up above stay ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Close to all your loved ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ ones For it’s you they ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ miss and love ⋱♰⋰
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⋱♰⋰ bigs hugs from me to you and your ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ family and friends that you miss you ever day ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ but in our hearts forever you will not be ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ forgoten you take care love from me ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Sylvie mommy of Samantha ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Belanger hugs and XXXX ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ bye for now good ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ night ⋱♰⋰
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....Goodnight and God Bless..........
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♥ ♥ ♥ Angel Day bigs hugs from me to you and your family and friends that you miss you ever day but in our hearts forever take care love you bye for now hugs love from me.♥ ♥ ♥
In a baby castle, just beyond your eye,
Your baby plays with angel toys that money cannot buy.
Who are you to wish him back into this world of strife,
No, play on your baby, they'll have eternal life.
At night when all is silent and sleep forsakes your eyes,
You'll hear their tiny footsteps come running to your side
Their little hands caress you so tenderly and sweet,
You'll breathe a prayer and close your eyes and embrace them in your sleep.
Now you have a treasure that you rate above all others
You have known true glory,
You are still their mother.
My son
elikem , you will be a year old soon and i have started looking at cakes that i want to get you but none of them are good enough for you , i can see myself now with your balloons and your things i will put on your grave and your sister will hopefully be in her pram ,and i will tell her all about how her big brother made sure she got here safely , she will be born on 21st july at 36 weeks and 2 days 2008 , you were born at 36 weeks and 5 days so they should get her out in plenty of time , i have ordered my tracksuit with your hand ad foot prints on the back and your photo on the front so everyone can see how beautiful you are . i love you so much you are my little man xxxx
for mummy on mothers day xxx
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thankyou ann for yourb kind words im sorry i haven't been able to get onto your site at the moment and that i haven't lite a candel lately for jack but my sister died on saturday leaving 3 youung children so its very heartbreking i will be thinking of you and jack did you go onto elikems new site i done a christmas balloon for jack
THANK YOU SO VERY MUCH
Hello Emma
First of all i wanted to say a big thank you to you for all the lovely message and candles you have lit over the christmas and new year , you kind words to me and jack have ment so very much to me and its so lovely to know he was not forgotten when i was away .. im so sorry for the lack of candles for Elikem but you have all been in my thoughts so very much .... Like all of us on GTS we all find it hard at times to come on here ... but im hoping now i can get back into it even though its jack birthday tomorrow .. hope you are all well Emma sending my love to you all .. And extra love and kisses to you to Elikem , all my love Ann xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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I want to thankyou for chosing us to be your mummy and daddy and for giving us the strengh to get up every morning , i want to know that i couldn't be more proud of you your such a beutiful little boy and im so lucky to call you mine , i have got so many things to take down to the grave with me for you ,thats all i can do for you ,i talk about every day you are included in my life in every way and you always will be my special little boy , i also want to thankyou for sending me and daddy a new brother or sister although they will never replace you they will know everything about you so look after your sister or brother elikem keep them safe i love you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Thinking of you
Hello Emma
Wanted to write to you to say i'm sorry but i will not be able to light candles for Elikem over the next couple of weeks as i am going away for christmas and new year ... but you will all be in my thoughts always. and as soon as i get back home i will return to lighting them again .... May i wish you all a Merry Christmas & all the very best for the new year all my love from Ann ( Jack houghton mummy ) xxxxxxxxx
emma....ive just had a peek at elikems new site you must be so proud of yourself youve done a wonderfull job,im sure my grandma margaret kent will be watching over elikem she loved children.congratulations on your wedding.take care love emmaxxxx
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